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The Wheel of Lifeten areas, scored monthly

A wheel of life puts every important part of your life on one page, so you can see what’s thriving and what’s been quietly neglected.

What a wheel of life is

A circle divided into wedges, one per area of life. You score each area from 1 at the centre to 10 at the rim. Joined up, the scores make a shape, and the shape tells you something a to-do list never will: whether your life is round or lopsided.

Most people find one or two areas carrying everything (usually work) while others, like health, friendships or rest, slip without anyone noticing. The wheel makes that visible in a minute.

The ten areas

There’s no official list. These ten cover the parts of life most people say matter in the end:

• Intimate relationshipTrust, honesty, attraction, shared responsibility, long-term cooperation.
• FamilyParents, siblings, children, and the family life you want to create.
• FriendshipsA few reliable friends you can speak to honestly and depend on.
• Meaningful workResponsibility, competence, contribution, financial stability.
• EducationKnowledge, skills, judgment, the capacity to carry more.
• HealthSleep, exercise, nutrition, emotional stability, no destructive patterns.
• Habits & characterImproving weaknesses, telling the truth, keeping commitments.
• LeisureEnjoyment, restoration, creativity, play. Not passive distraction.
• CommunityConnection beyond yourself: a congregation, a club, a neighbourhood, a cause.
• Plan for the futureA realistic three-to-five-year vision that organises your decisions.

How to score: 1 to 10

Vague scales produce vague scores. Anchor both ends to something concrete for each area:

Your score is simply where you are between the two this month. Be honest: nobody else sees it, and an inflated score only hides the area that needs you.

Why monthly beats a one-off wheel

Most wheel of life exercises are done once, in a workshop or a journal, and forgotten. A single wheel is a snapshot. It can’t tell you whether anything is changing.

• Direction shows up. Twelve dots joined into a line show which areas are rising and which are sliding.
• You compare yourself to last month, not to anyone else. That’s the only comparison that motivates.
• Neglect becomes visible early, while it’s still a small fix, not a crisis.
• Progress feels good. Seeing a line climb is its own reward, and that keeps you going.

It takes about three minutes: one honest dot per area, joined to last month’s.

Make it a game: your Life Score

Treat the ten areas like ten skills you’re levelling up. Add up the ten scores and you get a Life Score out of 100.

• One number to beat: last month’s total. Going from 72 to 76 is a real, visible win.
• Level up the weakest skill first. Raising your lowest area from 4 to 6 adds as many points as pushing a strong one from 8 to 10, and it’s usually far easier.
• No leaderboard. The only player you compete with is who you were a month ago.

Reading a lopsided wheel

A few patterns come up again and again:

• Work high, health and friendships low: the classic. The loud area wins every week; the quiet ones lose by default.
• Everything at 5: often a sign the ends aren’t defined. Revisit what 1 and 10 mean for each area.
• One area dragging the rest: poor sleep or a strained relationship tends to pull several wedges down together. Fix that one first.

The goal isn’t a perfect 10 everywhere. It’s a wheel that gets rounder over the year.

Track it on your wall

The Life Balance Compass is a wheel of life built for a full year: ten areas, twelve months, one dot each, drawn by hand. A3, A2 or framed, or a printable PDF.

See the compass — from $29

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